Intimate Elopements, Thoughtfully Curated
Modernday Event Design offers expert elopement planning in Southern California for couples who want something meaningful, beautiful, and intentionally designed—without the structure of a traditional wedding. Whether you're local or traveling to elope in California, we handle every detail so you can be fully present.
What Is an Elopement?
An elopement is an intimate celebration that typically includes just the couple, or a very small number of guests. Elopements focus on simplicity, freedom, and emotional presence while still honoring the significance of the moment.
Unlike micro weddings, elopements are centered on the experience itself rather than a guest-focused event.
Elopement Planning in Southern California
From coastal cliffs and scenic overlooks to quiet natural settings, Southern California provides a stunning canvas for intimate elopements. We help couples select meaningful locations, design a simple yet beautiful aesthetic, and coordinate the details that allow the experience to feel calm and intentional.
Planning from out of state? We specialize in supporting destination couples with local expertise, vendor connections, and on-the-ground coordination so your elopement feels seamless from start to finish.
Our Elopement Philosophy
We believe elopements should feel intentional—not rushed or minimal by default. Our role is to provide thoughtful guidance, design clarity, and logistical support so couples can focus fully on the moment they are creating together.
Ready to Plan Your Elopement?
If you're dreaming of an intimate elopement in Southern California—whether you're local or planning from afar—we would be honored to help bring your vision to life.
Based in Dana Point, California
Serving local and destination couples throughout Southern California
The Modernday Method…
Step 1
Remember those days when you were first dating?
We’ll start with a discovery call to get acquainted. This is when we get to learn about one another. We’ll discuss your preferences and all the important details.
Step 2
This is the next phase of our relationship when things begin to get serious!
Once we have all the details, we will generate an example of design elements and prepare an estimate of costs to present to you.
Step 3
Okay, we are all in now!
We’ve committed to one another. The plans are solidified, and we have sealed the deal! We are locked in.
This is definitely happening!
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An elopement is centered on the couple's experience and typically includes just the two of you or a very small number of loved ones. The focus is on intimacy, freedom, and emotional presence. A micro wedding, while also small, is more guest-focused with traditional wedding elements like seating, catering, and reception activities. Elopements prioritize simplicity and the significance of the moment itself.
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Southern California offers incredible variety for elopements—from dramatic coastal cliffs in Laguna Beach and Palos Verdes to desert landscapes in Joshua Tree and Anza-Borrego. Mountain settings like Big Bear or Idyllwild provide forest backdrops, while scenic overlooks throughout Orange County and San Diego offer ocean views. We help you select a location that reflects your style and story while considering permit requirements and accessibility.
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Absolutely. We specialize in supporting destination couples who are traveling to Southern California to elope. As locals, we provide insider knowledge on locations, handle all permit applications, connect you with trusted vendors, coordinate timelines, and manage day-of logistics. You'll have a dedicated point person who knows the area intimately, so planning from afar feels easy and stress-free.
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Many public locations in Southern California require permits for ceremonies, including beaches, state parks, and regional parks. Requirements vary by location and typically involve fees ranging from $50 to several hundred dollars. We guide you through the permit process and help identify locations that align with your timeline and budget, including private venue options that don't require additional permits. For destination couples, we handle all permit applications on your behalf.
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We recommend planning 3-6 months in advance to secure your preferred date, location permits, and vendors. However, elopements can be planned more quickly if needed—sometimes in as little as 4-6 weeks depending on location availability and vendor schedules. Popular coastal locations and peak season dates (spring and fall) typically require more advance planning. Destination couples may want slightly more lead time to coordinate travel and accommodations.